On top of being polyamorous, I am also queer – and relationships between queer people are also really underrepresented in the media.
I didn’t know what to expect, where to find support, or whose advice to take.
She has been featured as a guest writer on websites such as Women24 and Foxy Box, while also writing for her personal blog.
But one relationship – however fulfilling – can’t make up for a relationship that makes you unhappy.
For obvious reasons, it’s not a good idea to take on one relationship when the other one isn’t in good shape.
The idea of loving dozens of people at once is appealing to many people, myself included.
Hopefully through careful consideration and deep introspection, you’ll be better equipped to make an informed decision and navigate successfully through the exciting and complex world of polyamory and dating.
I joined OKCupid to build my own poly-friendly community, and I have not been disappointed.
It was where I first became sure that, yes, polyamorous people do exist, and they are perfectly normal.
I found plenty of nice and friendly people, happy to connect and generous to share ideas and experiences.
I got advice on relationship issues, information about meetings and events, new contacts, book and film recommendations, I have even got some guidance on DIY work.
If you're non-monogamous and want to meet people on dating sites, you can face some unique challenges.