Mystery, of any kind and for any reason, is unbelievably energizing, and it’s yours for the taking. phone conversation between a coworker and her long-distance boyfriend that had too many expletives to recount here.Having a Facebook account is unsexy for single guys, but ghosting the Internet entirely is another kind of red flag.
The nexus of the issue was something I've heard repeatedly from other women, and the censored version goes a little something like this: And so on. It's one thing to deal with this kind of nonsense in high school, but no one over 25 needs to be saddled with this type of tomfoolery.
Can't a relationship just be about the two people in it, without all the riffraff of the past?
When he wasn’t there—really wasn’t there, which I found out after going Jacques Cousteau on the search bar—I instantly liked him even more.
You already know that a Facebook page can easily become a repository of avoidable turnoffs: albums of unintentionally depressing bathroom-mirror selfies, syntactically insane drunk-posts, easily traceable hookup histories via relationship statuses.
A straight single man without Facebook is an increasingly rare idyll: It suggests that he still believes in the irreproducible alchemy of in-person meet-cutes and has the confidence to make them happen, that he gives enough of a shit to maintain friendships off-line, that he maybe even remembers the seductive value of actual phone calls.
A dude who is willing and able to talk to a woman is a dude with an easy but significant sexual advantage.
Both include only what you choose and make a better case for who you are and want to be.
They’re hard evidence for a woman that you just might be a worthwhile, smart, active guy, as depicted via an intelligent back-and-forth with someone in your industry or a moody shot of the back-alley cocktail bar you found on vacation.
Another guy—a very hot, dangerous-in-a-way-that-I-like guy—used his Facebook page to complain about his bills, his co-workers, his commute, and other banal life-slights, which made him into a boring-in-a-way-that-I-hate guy.